HOW TO TURN A WOMAN
ON - MAKE HER WANT YOU
It’s tough to make an impression. In a
nightclub, it can feel sleazy; on a date, it’s hard to avoid
awkwardness. So what can men to do to turn women on and leave them
lustfully craving more? Here are of 5 ideas that only a woman with
ice in her veins could ignore.
What I Mean: A little playful teasing can be the hugest turn
on. Women don’t like to be agreed with about everything we say (no
matter what you’ve heard!).
Why It Works: Some titilating but harmless arguing allows the
man to push the woman’s buttons and vice versa. The power struggle
heats up the sexual tension and draws you two together. I mean,
what’s more intimate than a lovers' quarrel?
A word of warning, there is a big difference between teasing a woman
about being lost in your eyes and about her weight. Don’t be a jerk,
just don’t be a pushover either.
Women say they hate to be told what to do, but it can actually be
quite arousing. It’s a sexy challenge. You tell her she’ll be
tearing your clothes off later, she can’t help but picture that
image – even if she denies it. You think the lady doth protest too
much? Most likely.
What I Mean: If there is some sort of group dynamic, or if
you are dancing together, and you glance her way and just hold this
gaze – shivers. Eyes say a lot and really sexy men know exactly how
to put what they are thinking out there.
Why It Works: It makes her feel like she is the only woman in
the room. It is so hot to feel someone’s eyes on you when you know
what they are thinking. Again, the sexual tension is kicked up big
From one look, you could leave her dying inside wondering and
waiting for what the two of you can do when you actually are alone.
What I Mean: Who would think politeness could be an
aphrodisiac? But take my word for it, holding doors, pulling out
chairs, compliments – even if she laughs them off, she’s impressed.
Why It Works: It’s rare to be treated with respect and like a
lady these days! The reason it’s so sexy is because it really calls
attention to your roles as men and women. Like Ron Burgundy said to
his date: “You be a woman. I’ll be a man”.
For whatever reason, calling attention to the obvious can be really
hot. And all this gentle courtship is really so you can impress her
right? So while the man is acting like he’s in charge, the woman
gets to feel like she is calling the shots. Not to mention the sexy
contradiction of all this gentlemanly gallantry with whatever sinful
thoughts might be going on in your minds.
What I Mean: Women are fondled unnecessarily on pretty much a
daily basis so if we’re out on a date and there is more groping to
contend with, that is a huge turn off.
Try a different approach. The old “reverse pyschology” works pretty
well in this area. A man who can really hold back and just lightly
brush her hair off her shoulder or softly caress her leg is going to
find himself with a woman wanting more, more, more.
Why It Works: It’s a clear case of wanting what you can’t
have. Being out with a guy who is not doing all about bumping and
grinding can be a refreshing but strangely frustrating experience.
The less you touch her, the more she will want it! Especially when
teased with a gentle hand on hers or a slight brush of her leg. She
will tremble and sensual thoughts will be hard to escape.
What I Mean: Tell her she’s beautiful, tell her she turns you
on – quietly. This too makes her feel like you are the only ones in
the room. It’s especially sexy if you do it when there are a ton of
people around and there’s no real way for her to respond.
Why It Works: All this pent up sexual tension will leave her
ready to explode. Women are auditory creatures and hearing your
naughty little thoughts will leave us so shaken we won’t be able to
concentrate on anything else.
Words are powerful and as long as you don’t overdo it with porno
type cheesiness, she’ll be unable to resist your steamy suggestions.
Even a simple “I want to kiss you right now” will cause a rush of
desire – if she wasn’t thinking about sex before, there’s no chance
she’s ignoring that tantalizing tidbit.